An Intimate "Candlelight"

Come celebrate Christmas with us - in spirit, song and friendship.

You can sit back in your comfortable pew and enjoy the beautiful voices of some of our favourite soloists singing some of our favourite music…as you sip your cup of hot chocolate…

We’re calling it “bring your own mug.” You bring your favourite mug to the church and we’ll fill it with tea or hot chocolate before you get settled in for the service.

And when the lights dim just enough to make the candles in the church cast a warmer glow, the story-teller in our midst will rise to read us a story, a favourite story written by one of the greatest writers we have known.

I’m looking forward to that very, very much. 

Come with a photograph if you’d like; we’ll have a table ready for photographs of those we’ll be missing for Christmas, friends and family who have passed, or who are just too far away to be with us at this time.

And - there will be a table with decoration fixings for children to make Christmas ornaments. Perhaps to hang in the Christmas tree outside? We’ll be turning the lights on outside before the service, with the possibility of stopping to warm your hands as you enjoy the sight.

Join us, please do.

Love, peace, harmony and goodwill,

by candlelight.

 Sarah

Candlelight/ Chantons Noel, Sunday December 19th at 4pm at SouthWest United Church.

New Public Health Measures December 20

As you are no doubt painfully aware, the Covid numbers are on the rise again in Quebec and with the presence of the Omicron variant, the government has seen fit to introduce some tighter public health measures.

Up to this point, places of worship have not been required to check vaccination status, and we at Southwest, though strongly advisingd everyone to be vaccinated, have not made it a requirement to attend church. As of Monday, that will change. Everyone wishing to attend services in person will need to prove that they are adequately vaccinated.

If you are vaccinated but do not have proof, you can find out more by going to the government site linked below. If you have a smartphone you can download the Vaxicode app, but a paper printout does the trick as well.

Our understanding is that we are still permitted to fill the sanctuary to 1/2 capacity, about 50 people, who should remain masked.

We may be trying out the Vaxicode technology on Sunday, December 19th, but will not turn anyone away. Please understand that as of Monday, December 20th, until further notice, we will not be able to admit anyone who is not adequately vaccinated. Of course we will continue to share our services online.

Thank you for your understanding.

Winter Solstice/ Blue Christmas

Blue Christmas is a worship service, usually done in conjunction with Winter Solstice (December 21st). It acknowledges that, for many people, Christmas is a time of loneliness, sorrow, alienation and sadness. This service offers a way for people to claim those feelings and still feel surrounded by the compassion of God.

Should this be you this Christmas, join me in a quiet service of prayer and light on Tuesday, December 21st at 2:00 pm. All are welcome, no matter what sadness may be upon you at this time.

Pastor Beryl

Advent 4: A Story of Love

This week, on Love Sunday, I share with you a wonderful story for this last Sunday in Advent.  I hope you enjoy it!

 

“If You Are Missing Baby Jesus, Call 7162”

Written by Jean Gietzen

When I was a child, my father worked for an oil company in North Dakota. The company moved him around to different parts of the state, and at some point, between one move and another, we lost our family Nativity set. Shortly before Christmas in 1943, my mother decided to replace it and was happy to find another at our local five and dime for only $3.99. When my brother Tom and I helped her unpack the set, we discovered two figures of the Baby Jesus.

"Someone must have packed this wrong," my mother said, counting out the figures. "We have one Joseph, one Mary, three wise men, three shepherds, two lambs, a donkey, a cow, an angel, and two babies. Oh dear! I suppose some set down at the store is missing Baby Jesus."

"Hey, that's great, Mom," my brother and I shouted. "We have twins!"

"You two run back down to the store and tell the manager that we have an extra Jesus. Tell him to put a sign on the remaining boxes saying that if a set is missing a Baby Jesus, call 7162," my mother instructed. "I'll give each of you a penny for some candy. And don't forget your mufflers. It's freezing cold out there."

The manager of the store copied down my mother's message and the next time we were in the store we saw the cardboard sign that read, "If you're missing Baby Jesus, call 7162."

All week long we waited for the call to come. Surely, we thought, someone was missing the important figurine. Each time the phone rang, my mother would say, "I'll bet that's about Jesus," but it never was. My father tried to explain that the figurine could be missing from a set in Walla Walla in Washington and that packing errors occur all the time. He suggested we just put the extra Jesus back in the box and forget about it.

"Back in the box!" I wailed. "What a terrible thing to do to the Baby Jesus. And at Christmastime, too."

"Surely someone will call," my mother said. "We'll just keep them together in the manger until someone calls."

When no call had come by five on Christmas Eve, my mother insisted that my father "just run down to the store" to see if there were any sets left. "You can see them right through the window, over on the counter," she said. "If they are all gone, I'll know someone is bound to call tonight."

"Run down to the store?" my father thundered. "It's fifteen degrees below zero out there!"

"Oh Daddy, we'll go with you," I said. "Tommy and I will bundle up good. And we can look at the decorations on the way."

My father gave a long sigh and headed for the front closet. "I can't believe I'm doing this," he muttered. "Each time the phone rings everybody yells at me to see if it's about Jesus, and now I'm going off on the coldest night of the year to peek in a window to see if He's there or not there."

My father muttered all the way down the block, while my brother and I raced each other up to the window where the tiny lights flickered on and off around the frame. "They're all gone, Daddy!" I shouted. "Every set must be sold."

"Hooray, hooray!" my brother joined in, catching up with me. "The mystery will be solved tonight!"

My father, who had remained several steps behind us, turned on his heel and headed back home.

Inside the house once more, we saw the extra figurine had vanished from the set and my mother appeared to have vanished, too. "Someone must have called and she went out to deliver the figurine," my father reasoned, pulling off his boots. "You kids get busy stringing popcorn strands for the tree and I'll wrap your mother's present."

We had almost completed one strand when the phone rang. My father yelled for me to answer it. "Tell'm we found a home for Jesus," he called down the steps. But the caller was not an inquirer. It was my mother with instructions for us to come to 205 Chestnut Street immediately and bring three blankets, a box of cookies, and some milk.

"Now what has she gotten us into?" my father groaned as we bundled up again. "205 Chestnut Street. Why, that's about eight blocks away. Wrap that milk up good in the blankets or it will turn into ice by the time we get there. Why in the name of Heaven can't we all just get on with Christmas? It's probably twenty degrees below out there now. And the wind is picking up. Of all the crazy things to do on a night like this."

Tommy and I sang Christmas songs all the way to Chestnut Street. My father carrying his bundle of blankets and milk looked for all the world like St. Nicholas himself with his arms full of goodies. Every now and then my brother would call back to him, "Let's pretend we're looking for a place to stay, Dad, just like Joseph and Mary."

"Let's pretend we are in Bethlehem where it is probably sixty-five degrees in the shade right now," my father answered.

The house at 205 Chestnut Street turned out to be the darkest one in the block. One tiny light burned in the living room, and the moment we set foot on the porch step, my mother opened the door and shouted, "They're here, they're here. Oh, thank God you got here, Ray! You kids take those blankets into the living room and wrap up the little ones on the couch. I'll take the milk and the cookies."

"Would you mind telling me what is going on, Ethel?" my father asked." We have just walked through below zero weather with the wind in our faces all the way. …"

"Never mind all that now," my mother interrupted. "There is no heat in this house and this young mother is so upset she doesn't know what to do. Her husband walked out on her and those poor children will have to spend a very bleak Christmas, so don't you complain. I told her you could fix that oil furnace in a jiffy."

My mother strode off to the kitchen to warm the milk while my brother and I wrapped up the five little children who were huddled together on the couch. The children's mother explained to my father that her husband had run off, taking bedding, clothing, and almost every piece of furniture, but she had been doing all right until the furnace broke down.

"I been doin' washin' and ironin' for people and cleaning the five and dime," she said. "I saw your number every day there, on those boxes on the counter. When the furnace went out, that number kept goin' through my mind: 7162. 7162.

"Said on the box that if a person was missin' Jesus, they should call you. That's how I knew you were good Christian people, willin' to help folks. I figured that maybe you could help me, too. So I stopped at the grocery store tonight and I called your missus. I'm not missin' Jesus, mister, because I sure love the Lord. But I'm missin' heat.

"Me and the kids ain't got no beddin', no warm clothes. I got a few Christmas toys for them, but I got no money to fix that furnace."

"Okay, okay," my father said kindly. "You've come to the right place. Now let's see. You've got a little oil burner over there in the dining room. Shouldn't be too hard to fix. Probably just a clogged flue. I'll look it over, see what it needs."

My mother came into the living room carrying a plate of cookies and a tray with warm milk. As she set the cups down on the coffee table, I noticed the figure of Baby Jesus lying in the center of the table. It was the only sign of the Christmas season in the house. The children stared wide-eyed with wonder at the plate of cookies my mother set before them. One of the littlest ones woke up and crawled out from under the blanket. Seeing all the strangers in his house, he began to cry. My mother swooped him up in her arms and began to sing to him.

This, this, is Christ the King, Whom shepherds guard and angels sing, she crooned while the child wailed. Haste, haste to bring Him laud, the Babe, the son of Mary, she sang, oblivious to the child's cries. She sang and danced the baby around the room until he settled down again.

"You hear that, Chester?" the young mother said to another child. "That woman is singin' ‘bout the Lord Jesus. He ain't ever gonna walk out on us. Why, He sent these people to us just to fix our furnace. And blankets we got now, too. Oh, we'll be warm tonight."

My father, finishing his work on the oil burner, wiped his hands on his muffler and said, "I've got it going, but you need more oil. I'll make a few calls tonight when I get home and we'll get you some oil. Yessir, you came to the right place," he grinned.

When my father calculated that the furnace was going strong once more, our family bundled up and made our way home. My father didn't say a thing about the cold weather and had barely set foot inside the front door when he was on the phone.

"Ed? Hey, how are ya, Ed?" I heard him say. "Yes, Merry Christmas to you too. Say, Ed, we have kind of an unusual situation here and I know you've got that pickup truck. I wonder if we could round up some of the boys and find a Christmas tree, you know, and a couple of things for …"

The rest of his conversation was lost in the blur of words as my brother and I ran to our rooms and began pulling clothes out of our closets and toys off of our shelves. My mother checked through our belongings for sizes and games she said "might do" and added some of her sweaters and slacks to our stack. We were up way past our bedtime that night wrapping our gifts. The men my father had called found oil for the furnace, bedding, two chairs, three lamps, and had made two trips to 205 Chestnut before the night was done. Our gifts were piled into the truck on the second trip, and even though it must have been thirty degrees below by then, my father let us ride along the back of the truck.

No one ever did call about the missing figurine in the Nativity set, but as I grow older I realize that it wasn't a packing mistake at all.

May the reading of this story fill your hearts with love.

Pastor Beryl, DLM

Candlelight/ Chantons Noël 2021

Every year on a Sunday close to Christmas, we hold a carol service at SouthWest. It’s separate from the regular morning worship, held later in the day. This year’s “Candlelight” will be on December 19th at 4p.m. Below is an invitation from our Music Director, Sarah Fraser.

Come join us at 4 pm on Sunday, December 19 for an intimate celebration of the music and readings around Christmas.

‘Tis a year like no other, so it is fitting that this year’s Candlelight service will be like no other…

But then that slips just fine into our tradition of continuous reinvention!

Music, carols, a very special reading, and the story of Christmas;

A gathering around the warmth of a familiar truth.

 

*details to follow next week

Thanks to George and Sue!

Once again, the O’Reillys answered the call to pick up and deliver food we had collected for the food bank at Dawson BGC. It’s not the first time they’ve helped us out, but this time I remembered to document the occasion! Thanks to everyone who donated. Once again, it was an impressive amount!

Amy

Beryl's Blog: Advent 3

This Sunday marks the third Sunday in Advent, and in worship we will light the “joy” candle in the advent wreath, which symbolizes joy at the soon-coming of Jesus. The joy candle is often pink and is also referred to as the Mary Candle or Shepherds’ Candle.

 This week we see a shift from the more somber prior weeks of Advent, to a more joyous atmosphere of anticipation and expectancy. The angels’ message to the shepherds was one of “good tidings of great joy.” It serves as a reminder that the Christmas message is one of rejoicing. 

What do you know about joy? For most of us, “rejoicing” is not a word we use frequently in our vocabulary, let alone an action we embrace as a daily discipline. All too often, joy is confused with its cousin, happiness. And although related, they are not the same.  In short, happiness tends to be linked to external circumstances, while joy springs deep from within, and isn’t fazed by external conditions. 
 
This time of year, it’s easy to get caught up in “the pursuit of happiness”, whether it’s hoping for that one item that tops your wish list, or trying to create a Christmas that looks like the covers of the magazines or sale ads that stream into your home. And yes, while we all seek to be happy, it’s important to remember that Christmas isn’t about happiness. In fact, there are many people who may find it difficult to be happy at this time of year. They may be celebrating Christmas without a dear loved one who has passed, or perhaps a member of the family is far away, or even estranged, and there is great sadness in this absence. Others may be living with financial stress, or emotional stress—burdens which may go unseen to others, but not unknown to God.

If you are in need of a little hope, peace and joy this Christmas season, there will be a place of prayerful retreat at SWU on December 21st, winter solstice at 2:00 pm. Come, let your hearts be open to the Spirit as you light a candle for the one you may be missing this year.

From Voices United, page 26, the following prayer for Advent:

Who are we, O God, that you should come to us?
You have visited your people and redeemed us in your son.
As we prepare to celebrate his birth,
make our hearts leap for joy at the sound of your word,
and move us by your spirit to bless your wonderful works.
We ask this through him whose coming is certain,
whose day draws near, even you Son Jesus Christ.  Amen

May Joy find you, even in the darkest of places.

Pastor Beryl, DLM

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